{"id":14715,"date":"2015-12-19T11:45:16","date_gmt":"2015-12-19T04:45:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/?p=14715"},"modified":"2015-12-19T11:46:52","modified_gmt":"2015-12-19T04:46:52","slug":"3-quan-diem-nuoi-con-gay-tranh-cai-doi-voi-cac-ba-me-viet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/3-quan-diem-nuoi-con-gay-tranh-cai-doi-voi-cac-ba-me-viet.html","title":{"rendered":"3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m nu\u00f4i con g\u00e2y ” tranh c\u00e3i ” \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bao b\u1ecdc hay \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, c\u00f3 n\u00ean \u201cy\u00eau cho roi cho v\u1ecdt\u201d, d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh khi con kh\u00f3c hay kh\u00f4ng\u2026 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00e2y tranh lu\u1eadn cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 khi d\u1ea1y con.\u00a0Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt: \u201cTr\u1ebb em Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111ang qu\u00e1 \u1ec9 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9\u201d M\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t chia s\u1ebb 8 vi\u1ec7c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m v\u1edbi con Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t m\u1edbi th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

1. Bao b\u1ecdc hay \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t qu\u00e1 bao b\u1ecdc con, l\u00e0m thay con t\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf t\u1edbi l\u1edbn. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i m\u1ea7m non, nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng cho con l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec v\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ea9n, s\u1ee3 con l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng, hay s\u1ee3 con m\u1ec7t. H\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc hay trung h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng v\u1eady, c\u00e1c con ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c lo h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh l\u1edbn t\u01b0\u1edbng, ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean y\u00ean xe \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea9y xe trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y m\u01b0a ng\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ebfm.<\/p>\n

\"3-quan-diem-nuoi-con-gay-tranh-cai-doi-voi-cac-ba-me-viet<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, t\u1edbi b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb9 \u201clo ngay ng\u00e1y\u201d khi con chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, ra \u1edf tr\u1ecd m\u00e0 c\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1ea5u, c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec1u lo chu to\u00e0n t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh cho con trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 con l\u00e0m th\u00eam v\u00ec s\u1ee3 con\u2026 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

B\u1edfi v\u1eady m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang, v\u1ec7 sinh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, hay tham gia v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c n\u1ea5u \u0103n, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 xa x\u1ec9 v\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u tranh lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u00e1nh hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ngoan c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed3i k\u1ebft. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng \u201cy\u00eau cho roi cho v\u1ecdt\u201d, theo h\u1ecd th\u00ec n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft s\u1ee3 th\u00ec m\u1edbi ngoan. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i gay g\u1eaft ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n n\u00e0y khi cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\"Bi-quyet-giup-tre-cham-hoc-5\"<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u chia s\u1ebb, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn n\u00ean th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u00e1nh con. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201cd\u1ea1y con th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh\u201d c\u0169ng c\u00f2n tranh lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng: khi n\u00e0o th\u00ec n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh con, \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e1nh con c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u0103n \u0111e?<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 g\u00ec n\u1ebfu \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

3. D\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh hay \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c con kh\u00f3c ?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh hay c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c con kh\u00f3c l\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 tranh c\u00e3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh theo \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. Theo \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7u, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i r\u1ed3i sau th\u1eddi gian b\u00e9 kh\u00f3c s\u1ebd t\u1eeb t\u1eeb r\u00fat ng\u1eafn l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 quen d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y v\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f3c trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn.<\/p>\n

\"3-quan-diem-nuoi-con-gay-tranh-cai-doi-voi-cac-ba-me-viet<\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, trong m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c, khi \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i si\u00eau th\u1ecb, ho\u1eb7c t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng c\u00f9ng m\u1eb9, con b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, la h\u00e9t khi con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mua th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 con y\u00eau th\u00edch\u2026 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 tranh lu\u1eadn trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec n\u00ean d\u1ea1y con theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u1eebng kh\u00f3c? M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng n\u00ean d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh con, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f3c \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng, mu\u1ed1n d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi con trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, theo h\u1ecd, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi con 1 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0, l\u1ea5n t\u1edbi.
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Bao b\u1ecdc hay \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, c\u00f3 n\u00ean \u201cy\u00eau cho roi cho v\u1ecdt\u201d, d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh khi con kh\u00f3c hay kh\u00f4ng\u2026 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00e2y tranh lu\u1eadn cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 khi d\u1ea1y con.\u00a0Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt: \u201cTr\u1ebb em Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111ang qu\u00e1 \u1ec9 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9\u201d M\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t chia s\u1ebb 8 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":14719,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_yoast_wpseo_focuskw":"","_yoast_wpseo_title":"3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m nu\u00f4i con g\u00e2y \" tranh c\u00e3i \" \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t","_yoast_wpseo_metadesc":"Bao b\u1ecdc hay \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, c\u00f3 n\u00ean \u201cy\u00eau cho roi cho v\u1ecdt\u201d, d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh khi con kh\u00f3c hay kh\u00f4ng\u2026 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00e2y tranh lu\u1eadn cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 khi d\u1ea1y con","footnotes":""},"categories":[20,35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-gia-dinh","category-nuoi-day-con"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14715"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14722,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14715\/revisions\/14722"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}