{"id":20304,"date":"2016-07-23T11:49:49","date_gmt":"2016-07-23T04:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/?p=20304"},"modified":"2016-07-23T11:49:49","modified_gmt":"2016-07-23T04:49:49","slug":"nam-long-nhung-nguyen-tac-doi-pho-voi-tre-uong-buong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/nam-long-nhung-nguyen-tac-doi-pho-voi-tre-uong-buong.html","title":{"rendered":"N\u1eb1m l\u00f2ng nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng"},"content":{"rendered":"

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh, tr\u1ebb em ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n tr\u1ebb con Ch\u00e2u \u00c1. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u1ec9 l\u1ea1i, d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong sinh ho\u1ea1t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1eed l\u00fd ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft kh\u00e1c nhau. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi, trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau nh\u1eefng v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00e1c nhau. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 1 s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong vi\u1ec7c x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng:<\/p>\n

1 . Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u01b0 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf. D\u00f9 trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c la h\u00e9t hay \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c hay g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian cho ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m l\u1edbn chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1eeb t\u1eeb x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u00e9 !<\/p>\n

\"kiem-che\"<\/p>\n

2. Ph\u1edbt l\u1edd tr\u1ebb<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t \u0111ang m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi con c\u00e1u kh\u00f3c th\u01b0\u1eddng chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd b\u00e9, d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh con. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1edbt l\u1edd tr\u1ebb. L\u00fac n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch, \u0103n v\u1ea1 hay kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, ph\u1edbt l\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 nh\u00e9. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee3i khi b\u00e9 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng cho b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a ngoan, t\u1ea1i sao m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

3. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea5m con l\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, c\u1ea5m l\u00e0m c\u00e1i kia m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u00f2 m\u00f2 c\u1ee7a con l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn con ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafn nh\u1ec9 v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” m\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

\"canh-bao=gioi=han\"<\/p>\n

4. Bi\u1ebft gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n – C\u1ea7n c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o – C\u00f3 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ranh gi\u1edbi r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. T\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u0103ng l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cho con qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o n\u00ean th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

\u0110i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3n b\u00e1o. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ebb \u0111i qua gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o ch\u00fang. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem c\u00f3 n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c hay d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, sau gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt r\u1ed3i. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i x\u1eed ph\u1ea1t c\u00f4ng minh theo c\u00e1ch ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u0103ng nh\u1eefng c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn 1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

5. Khen th\u01b0\u1edfng khi c\u1ea7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd mang h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ra \u0111e d\u1ea1o con tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u00e9 m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin \u1edf con tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c th\u00ec h\u00e3y gi\u00fap con bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu con c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 n\u1eefa. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung l\u1eddi khen th\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t t\u00f9y theo t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00ean chung chung nh\u01b0 “con ngoan qu\u00e1”, “con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1” m\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u00e0 “sao con \u0103n h\u1ebft nhanh v\u00e0 s\u1ea1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady” ho\u1eb7c ” con d\u1eady s\u1edbm th\u1eadt ngoan qu\u00e1”,…. L\u00fac n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 v\u1eeba m\u1edbi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

\"SONY<\/p>\n

Hi v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y, cha m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t s\u1ebd ch\u0103m con ngoan v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh, tr\u1ebb em ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n tr\u1ebb con Ch\u00e2u \u00c1. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u1ec9 l\u1ea1i, d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong sinh […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":20308,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20304"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/35"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20304"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20304\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20313,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20304\/revisions\/20313"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20308"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}