{"id":26483,"date":"2017-01-18T17:05:02","date_gmt":"2017-01-18T10:05:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/?p=26483"},"modified":"2017-01-18T17:05:02","modified_gmt":"2017-01-18T10:05:02","slug":"vi-sao-toi-khong-bao-gio-cho-con-dau-tet-nha-ngoai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/vi-sao-toi-khong-bao-gio-cho-con-dau-tet-nha-ngoai.html","title":{"rendered":"V\u00ec sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho con d\u00e2u \u0103n T\u1ebft nh\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y g\u1ea7n T\u1ebft, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 xung quanh b\u00e0n t\u00e1n x\u00f4n xao v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0103n T\u1ebft \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, qu\u00ea n\u1ed9i hay qu\u00ea ngo\u1ea1i. \u0110a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ch\u1ecb c\u00f2n tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 h\u00f9ng h\u1ed3n r\u1eb1ng: \u0102n T\u1ebft \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 t\u00f9y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n can thi\u1ec7p. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 ba n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i c\u0169ng t\u1eebng l\u00e0m d\u00e2u n\u00ean t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tr\u1ecdn b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a con d\u00e2u ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

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Ng\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe v\u1edbi con d\u00e2u. Nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp nh\u00e0 th\u00f4ng gia c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi, h\u1ecfi, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con d\u00e2u t\u00f4i \u1ed1m \u0111au, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt ph\u1ea3i \u0111i vi\u1ec7n t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea3o con d\u00e2u n\u00ean v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 lo vi\u1ec7c cho b\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft, tuy\u1ec7t nhi\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft. C\u00f3 ch\u0103ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc T\u1ebft, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng con c\u00e1i tranh th\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i l\u1ec5 b\u00e0y b\u00e0n th\u1edd th\u1eafp h\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con d\u00e2u t\u00f4i d\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

V\u1eabn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n T\u1ebft c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng \u201cxu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u00f2ng phu\u201d, l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i theo nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng. Th\u1eed h\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng mang tr\u1ea7u cau \u0103n h\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi r\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00e2u, th\u00ec c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng hay kh\u00f4ng? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 c\u00e2u “Con g\u00e1i l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta”, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ed3i th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft ra sao \u0111\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb lo l\u1eafng.<\/p>\n

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Nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ecb l\u1ea5y l\u00fd do s\u1ee3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 \u0103n T\u1ebft c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 cho \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1ee7i th\u00e2n. Xin th\u01b0a, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn b\u00ean nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb y\u00ean t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o r\u1ed3i, ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp b\u1eb1ng m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n c\u00f3 ch\u1ecb th\u00ec than th\u1edf ph\u1ea3i c\u01a1m n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft, mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt \u00edch k\u1ef7 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. C\u1ea3 n\u0103m c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m m\u00e2m c\u01a1m canh c\u00fang b\u00e1i t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, m\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, k\u00eau than n\u00e0y n\u1ecd th\u00ec th\u1eadt qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m d\u00e2u, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t n\u00ean k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft b\u00e0 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m d\u00e2u, c\u00e1c con d\u00e2u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi quy \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t ra. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i th\u00e0nh quen, \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0i n\u0103m nay, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang c\u00f2n h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c hay t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ec3 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1edb m\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n coi ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 con g\u00e1i, T\u1ebft n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e0 cho con, ch\u00e1u.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ghen t\u1ef5 v\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed nh\u1ed9n nh\u1ecbp, vui t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

S\u01b0u t\u1ea7m<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y g\u1ea7n T\u1ebft, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 xung quanh b\u00e0n t\u00e1n x\u00f4n xao v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0103n T\u1ebft \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, qu\u00ea n\u1ed9i hay qu\u00ea ngo\u1ea1i. \u0110a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea ngo\u1ea1i \u0103n T\u1ebft v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c. C\u00f3 ch\u1ecb c\u00f2n tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":26484,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[20],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26483"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26483"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26483\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26499,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26483\/revisions\/26499"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26484"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26483"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26483"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26483"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}