{"id":541,"date":"2013-07-03T14:48:41","date_gmt":"2013-07-03T07:48:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kidsplaza.local\/blog\/nhung-cach-de-day-be-duoi-2-tuoi-biet-nghe-loi.html"},"modified":"2025-04-16T11:33:08","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T04:33:08","slug":"nhung-cach-de-day-be-duoi-2-tuoi-biet-nghe-loi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/nhung-cach-de-day-be-duoi-2-tuoi-biet-nghe-loi.html","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 d\u01b0\u1edbi 2 tu\u1ed5i bi\u1ebft nghe l\u1eddi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cb\u1eaft\u201d m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng bi\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ch\u01b0a ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang sai, ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft… m\u1eb9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u00e9 s\u1ebd ngoan h\u01a1n m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Martin J. Drell (H\u00e0n L\u00e2m Vi\u1ec7n M\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 T\u00e2m L\u00fd Tr\u1ebb Nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 V\u1ecb Th\u00e0nh Ni\u00ean – AACAP) s\u1ebd m\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 r\u0103n d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 d\u01b0\u1edbi 2 tu\u1ed5i nghe l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

1. H\u00e3y nghi\u00eam gi\u1ecdng thay v\u00ec\u00a0la m\u1eafng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Martin J. Drell cho bi\u1ebft, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho con th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. V\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 l\u00ec h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 la m\u1eafng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nghi\u00eam gi\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e9 v\u1eeba l\u00e0m l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean ch\u1ec9 ra cho con nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra.<\/p>\n

“T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u00e9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 mong \u0111\u1ee3i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u00e9 v\u1eeba l\u00e0m. C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ng\u1eef \u0111i\u1ec7u, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u00e9 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. B\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1y n\u00e1y, h\u1ed1i l\u1ed7i”, Martin J. Drell cho bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

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Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc con. (\u1ea2nh minh h\u1ecda)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

2. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng “v\u0169 kh\u00ed” c\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e1nh m\u1eaft nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb. Khi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba g\u00e2y ra, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft con v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. \u00c1nh m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u00e9 t\u1eadp trung, th\u1ea5y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, Martin J. Drell c\u0169ng d\u1eb7n d\u00f2 cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 “c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng nh\u00ecn b\u00e9 v\u1edbi \u00e1nh m\u1eaft gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u00e0 h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c, v\u00ec b\u00e9 \u0111ang \u201c\u0111\u1ecdc\u201d v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb \u00e1nh m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n”.<\/p>\n

3. N\u00f3i \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi l\u00e0m<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i cho b\u00e9 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u00f3 “tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng”. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, ng\u1eef \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng k\u00e8m theo. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u0111i ng\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i con y\u00eau\u201d th\u00ec h\u00e3y k\u00e8m theo h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ebf b\u00e9 ho\u1eb7c d\u1eaft b\u00e9 \u0111i v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi t\u1eaft \u0111\u00e8n.<\/p>\n

B\u00e9 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng\u00a0\u0111i ng\u1ee7, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m theo \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

4. H\u00e3y h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ebb th\u1eadt c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n b\u00e9 thu d\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sau khi ch\u01a1i th\u00ec h\u00e3y h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con th\u1eadt c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 2 tu\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 nh\u01b0: “Con h\u00e3y c\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111i”, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i: “Con h\u00e3y c\u1ea5t con \u1ed1c s\u00ean m\u00e0u xanh v\u00e0o h\u1ed9p \u0111i”, v\u00e0 k\u00e8m theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cho b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1edb v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m l\u1ea7n sau.<\/p>\n

“B\u00e9 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea5t c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u1ea5t v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u v\u00ec nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh, b\u00e9 \u0111ang h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. V\u00ec v\u1eady n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 2 tu\u1ed5i hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nghe l\u1eddi th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3”, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Martin J. Drell cho bi\u1ebft th\u00eam.<\/p>\n

5. Kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e9 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf l\u1ea1i 1 l\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i, b\u00e9 d\u1ec5 l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u00e1nh xa b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng n\u00f3i, b\u00e9 c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t cao. M\u00e0 khi\u00a0t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn th\u00ec t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

6. \u0110\u1eebng m\u1ec1m l\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00e1nh m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u00e9<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft ng\u00e2n ng\u1ea5n n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a con, nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 \u00f4m con v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng khi v\u1eeba m\u1eafng b\u00e9 xong. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh x\u00f3a b\u1ecf h\u1ebft \u201cc\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c\u201d d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

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Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Martin J. Drell khuy\u00ean c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 sau khi r\u0103n d\u1ea1y con xong, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 \u201ct\u1ef1 ng\u1eabm\u201d trong 5 ph\u00fat, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i n\u1ef1ng n\u1ecbu b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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