{"id":765,"date":"2013-09-16T16:43:35","date_gmt":"2013-09-16T09:43:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kidsplaza.local\/blog\/10-dieu-cha-me-khong-the-khong-luu-y-khi-day-con.html"},"modified":"2013-09-16T16:43:35","modified_gmt":"2013-09-16T09:43:35","slug":"10-dieu-cha-me-khong-the-khong-luu-y-khi-day-con","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/10-dieu-cha-me-khong-the-khong-luu-y-khi-day-con.html","title":{"rendered":"10 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0u \u00fd khi d\u1ea1y con"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. L\u00e0m h\u01b0 con<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00ec qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u00edt c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean con, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf r\u1ed3i n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 con c\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y l\u00e0m h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1eabn s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hay suy ngh\u0129 cho ng\u01b0\u1edbi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng n\u00ean d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con, con tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

2. Thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c c\u1ee5 c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201c d\u1ea1y con t\u1eeb thu\u1edf c\u00f2n th\u01a1\u201d th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng sai, n\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i, thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, con s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u00edch k\u1ef7, c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt xung quanh. D\u1ea1y cho b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt ch\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc gh\u1ebf sofa \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 con bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m b\u1eadt l\u00f2 xo, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebfn ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng r\u0103n \u0111e v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u00e9 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u00e9 s\u1ebd coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

3. Kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a con<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 n\u01a1i con b\u1ea1n gi\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch con tr\u1ebb v\u00ec con hay ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ai? Ch\u01a1i th\u00e2n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n n\u00e0o? \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng con c\u00f3 ch\u00fa \u00fd nghe gi\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 b\u1ecf ti\u1ebft \u0111i ch\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n h\u1ecfi han con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp, nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch con \u0111\u1ec3 theo d\u00f5i t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

4. Ca ng\u1ee3i con qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khen con qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 sai v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khen con t\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh khen chung chung nh\u01b0 ki\u1ec3u \u201c con m\u1eb9 gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1\u201d m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i khen t\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c b\u00e9 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0: \u201ch\u00f4m nay con d\u1ecdn nh\u00e0 r\u1ea5t s\u1ea1ch\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecdc k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y con h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t con c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc k\u1ef3 ti\u1ebfp theo. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ca ng\u1ee3i b\u00e9 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n

5. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng\/ v\u1ee3 t\u1ed1t<\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nhau c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i, hay \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n b\u00e9 \u0111ang l\u1edbn, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e3i nhau v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng hay \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng hay c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y n\u00e0o h\u1ee3p l\u00fd h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c con, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

6. Kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00ean l\u00e0m, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e9 gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 qu\u00e9t nh\u00e0, r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n, nh\u1eb7t rau l\u00e0 b\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ti\u1ec1n. Nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean gi\u00fap con \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 s\u1edbm kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi v\u1ecdng khi ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng?<\/p>\n

7. \u0110\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng hi v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ra ngo\u00e0i d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1edbi hai tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0103n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng cho m\u00ecnh. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mong con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i sao b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 trong khi b\u00e9 ch\u1ec9 c\u00e2n n\u1eb7ng 45kg v\u00e0 th\u00edch ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e0n, th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho con v\u00e0 cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. S\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng duy nh\u1ea5t cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u00f3 l\u00e0: Mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1c con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac..<\/p>\n

8. Kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn r\u0103ng,l\u00e0m con \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. D\u1ea1y cho con tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ch\u00fang \u00edt h\u01a1n, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau con r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

9. \u00c1p \u0111\u1eb7t con<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 ri\u00eang v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u00e0m h\u00eat m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n, n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 th\u00edch h\u1ecdc v\u1ebd h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e0n, hay b\u00e9 th\u00edch b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e1 banh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea, l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, c\u00f2n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

10. N\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n hay s\u1ebd v\u1ec1 d\u1ef1 sinh nh\u1eadt b\u00e9 s\u1edbm nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? B\u00e9 m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m ho\u1eb7c h\u1ed7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn,\u2026 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea1t b\u00e9 nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n?N\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 m\u1ea5t t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u00e9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i (h\u1ee9a hay ph\u1ea1t) n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

1. L\u00e0m h\u01b0 con Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00ec qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u00edt c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean con, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf r\u1ed3i n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 con c\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":766,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-765","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-nuoi-day-con"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=765"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=765"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=765"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kidsplaza.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=765"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}